https://bugs.winehq.org/show_bug.cgi?id=53731
--- Comment #2 from Hamish McIntyre-Bhatty winehq@regd.hamishmb.com --- Thanks, that does help :)
Now that I know for sure that there are options to set, there should definitely be a menubar, and it should be enabled by default, in order to make the options discoverable - I'm a power user and I didn't find the options any of the usual ways, and I didn't find a wiki page or other documentation either.
I'm a member of the wiki, so if someone can point me at the page (if it exists), I'll add some cross-links to and from it.