That's like inviting people to an installfest, and then when they ask for help installing something saying "OH WELL" and spitting in their faces."
I think I can explain my thinking plainer:
One person tells another, "I need a dollar to buy a candy bar", You don't have a dollar, or not interested, they say "oh well, tough"
A logical way to solve the problem is
A) ask some one else for a dollar B) work and earn a dollar
Both are acceptable. In your case, you pick A) because you aren't a developer. Well there are other people that can help you, and other forums. But when a person refuses to help, are they spitting on you? Really...
Jesse